Based to Kyrani Eade, Insecurity doesn’t arise out of years of bullying. It arises out of problems in the present. There are people in your life, who are play underhanded dirty mind games to cause you to feel insecure. Threats can be made in many different ways and they never need to be carried out to have a very bad effect.

What do I do about insecurity caused by years of bullying?

Based on  edy420 , “Sure many bullies are born to be douchebags while others have their own problems they are struggling to cope with and vent appropriately…
But my main point is if we take the focus away from bullies and instead put it onto bully victims, we may perhaps discover weaknesses that need strengthening before its too late.”

Are bully victims weak?